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What’s one positive trait you’ve gained because of BPD?

11.06.2025 09:31

What’s one positive trait you’ve gained because of BPD?

Then he’ d take out his beloved lump hammer ,show it to the kids.

So i became my fathers slave and he hated me the most.

I was grabbed out of my mother hung upside down, and rushed up to the prenatal ward, to spend 4 mths alone, with, only medical staff.

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One of his many names for me was Runt .He like that it rhymed with (well you know)

I worked then as a chef ,and a very good one.

I was scared of men, in general

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Especially a lifetime of it.

We all went to grammer schools

Youll pack your bags and leave Dorset.

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He resisted the act ,that day.

Its mostly always from childhood abuse .

I was 9 years of age.

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He call us down, from where ever he stashed each one of us ,that day ! We were kept seperate.!

The apprentership one gets in Extreme Big T Trauma childhood is insight and extreme awarness.

Im kind ,and give many things, inc money ,to any of persons in need. I have a groups of homeless beggars ..i help out daily. They all know me by name!

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My mum and dad in the seventies!

The only way to get rid of it forgood ,is sommence therapy,

We wern’t close any more, the family fractured, after my Mothers death, and seeing me annoyed them ,as i was the familys scapegoat..

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Anyway, i told my husband ,and he was gobsmacked.

Everytime, i saw a chronically ill person in middle years.

The coal was sharp, and i usually had no underware! So my bare arse ,was cut and rossened on the coal..

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I have no regrets .

It was going to be , some day.

Insight, and i can spot a wrongin from 3 miles away.

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I let him have the joy of his friends( that i would never know myself.!)

And if you hold on to hate you only die inside yourself,!

One women pretended to my husband she wanted to see me for coffee ,and make friends.

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As she had lost her son ,to fatty liver disease!

But my sister and my other 3 brothers wouldn’t have come near him every again!

Being very nice and never wanting to say the wrong thing.

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But, we were locked up after school.

Like some twisted love , they where addicted to each other

He took out the hammer, and explained again, how the smallest tap ,of this hammer would kill me in a second.

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And as she herself ,wasn’t kissed or touched as a child.

It will be my last birthday ,as im dying of a brain tumor and 8 other autoimune diseases.

I did it because my mum asked me too!

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He isn,t a very sexual person at the best of times!

Was to survive, this bastard.

They look at me amazed ,and ask me how i could possibly know it?

Why am I so afraid that gun owners have set traps to kill me outside my house or my car?

She found it foreign!.

19 years ,i spent with dear old papa.

I never cut or harmed myself..

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He did pay me though, i made him (.After i’d trudged miles to get his pension ) Before ,it all was gone, over the pubs counter!

He’d sit me down, and stand behind the chair, Then he’d make a great show of his beauty (the chesil )and place it behind my neck ,at the base!

Why did i forgive my father ?

So whats the point in blame.

We didn’t no it wasn;t normal life..we were isolated, and taken from Dublin in Ireland ,where our whole mothers family lived , to Liverpool in England!

I was writing from the time i was a small child.

She was deluded, and thought she could stay on for the reminder of the holiday!

Ive learnt so much.

For him, I cleaned and cooked and shopped, and spent the whole day, doing a weeks work) in the only day off, i had, besides Sunday.)

As i do to all so called friends.?

I think the readers, may guess!

I will be 64.

Although we always gave her a kiss on the cheek. She would shrink away from it!

Also my liver and lungs are fatally diseased!

But im dying ,and its too late for me.

But there where , these other acts only us 2 girls, would receive, (When id have rather had his lump hammer , and chisel.).

Those are used to try and block the pain, like that of my life out..

We were not on the streets..

I only stopped writing poetry recently, because , of my brain tumor

And who doesn’t know suffering?

I only knew my twisted world , and there, is no choice for a child but to live in it. Or Die in it!

As i said though i will be 64 on my last birthday!

As i gave and gave ,everything to people, they began to use me.

As is all addictions, people can’t leave off.

And as runt ,of the litter .Which of course, i actually was!

Thats was my nicest nick name for him

What did i know ?

They are buried together, in the same grave..

5 of us kids, and it wasn’t a big house.

Because , i didnt have the heart to hurt my friend.!.

Anyway ,i could never hold on to a relationship.

Do all the shopping, and cooking and look after all the dogs.

Because huge Trauma like mine is alive.

Even in the coal hole, i said the lines in my head..

Im dying but, im not bitter.

Who then, do I blame.?

She was a women, a mother with her own children!.

All the time i was locked up.

I suffer greatly, because of BPD..

Why do we forgive? Because if we don,t

He knew the spot.

Yes, a stroke or heart attack is the reason on your death certificate.

Im constanly in a state of FLIGHT or FIGHT my whole life

He was dying to do it , i knew.

I immediatly know and see what their chidhood was. I tell them you had a awful time in childhood.

At this time i had honed my heart to the same, as that of a lion and i knew i wouldn’t beg or cry ,nor plead.

Thats being isolated in a house, locked up as a child .We never saw any people except in School and we had no relatives in Liverpool!

She died young (from the stress and abuse of Big T Trauma) of liver cancer!

I was seconnd youngest,

Although he,d calmed down a bit ..he still shouted his orders at me and thought , my older sister would be better at the job..

Stress hormones Adrenaline and Cortosol ,would have flooded my brain, and they never left it!!!!

I am a twin , my twin is a boy called Alan. I had a sister and 2 other brothers

(And it was in our own minds.)

I had hoped to write a book about this .

You don’ t get a state one here , in England ? until your at least 67 yrs old ! Im 63.

Im a true spealist, because i study it for years .And i still do..

Mine was extreme ,and lasted 19 years

My familys so full of ancestral BIG T Trauma.

Another so called friend had bit the dust..

His mum and dad ,were Alcoholics!

I ended up cooking for her, and bringing her eveywhere with us.

She stayed with him because she thought he,d grow out of it. He didn’t of course!

But people really die of the Big T Trauma!!

When she asked me how she looked .

So, i spoilt her more .

My place (mostly )was the coal hole..it was a small room heaped with coal .

As his daughter ,he didn’t even think I wouldn,t do it. (Look after him)

He’d bring us out ,and we would form the position .

My family never makes their pension either.

Her first husband, had been a gay man ,and he was a lovely person.

We were all going out this night to a fancy resteraunt.

So he went home with my mum to her 2 other children.

With Catholic nuns and Church on Sundays.

I wasn’t taught any boundries, our home ,was like any war zone , and Dad told us, he had bodies buried, under the floor boards.

My mother wasn’t a tactile women ..only as babes could she touch us. After we grew ,she couldn,t touch any of us.

Trauma never leaves you! Its actually lives in the fashia ,of the body .The connective tissue.

My life is so biszare .

I had many talking therapys , but they just don,t work.

I forgave my father, and i took care of him ,until his death in 1999..my mum left us on the 29th Jan 1998.

I might have to go back 30 generations or more..

I did write a poem about him though, and my mum.

I said to her

And i know him well ,and every thing about him. This relationship, is the only real one iIve been able to keep!

The same beautiful brown eyes my mother loved so much!

I had offered the whole expense of the holiday to her, free.

Rather to engertic for me ,with my terrible health, but i was left to run the house, it was a Cottage in Dorset.

But i am married 43 years to my husband this July !

And ive living now since 2005, on disablement .(Which is a pittance)

My twin will have involuntary pissed himself, but not me at least not, that day!

But im a psyci anyway, and i read energy and people, .

BPD only comes to a person who has suffered childhood trauma.

She was in good health!

Its like, taking poison, and hoping the other person will die.

Due to the real legacy of trauma (B.P.D)

I know ,a lot about trauma.

I watched his eyes light up and his twisted smile rejoice, in his joy of it all.

She got all dolled up, but it looked as she was dressed up to play the part of , Florence Nightingale ,as she descended down the cottage stairs ,like a Queen.

And when you live in a life , of being terrified, and shocked, and permantly stressed; especially as a child born in to all this .

Your thinking ,but those kids would have been street wise?

Why ? because Trauma depletes the immune system.you get terribley ill , with chronic disease from all the horror ,and stress of it.

He said i reminded him of an old aunt ,who used to beat him, and when the menapause came, she was placed in a mental home and never was released ,until she died.

But he said ,he was sick of her anyway ,and only put up with her as i had a friend ,and seemed to be happy.

Ther’s very good reasons why i was left alone.

I was very sick at this time too.

He weighed in at 5 lbs .I was the second born, and i weighed 3 and a half pounds.

And i lived it daily.

This is soul school!.

But it wasn’t much.

Im still living with it.

One cannot hold on to bitterness.

I forgave my father,, and in those years i cleaned and looked after him .

My only sister also couldn,t make her life work.

.I left my 2 sons and my husband to do it. Instead of spending the day with them

A line in front of him, from the eldest to the youngest.

Trauma lives in the body, as ive explained, but it actually this that kills you in the end.

But ive been too sick for many years..

He was a brick layer (when he worked at all) and he carried his tools around ,hanging from a money belt.

I could never make a relationship work though!

This is how, and why children get BPD.

The only rule us 5 kids had .

One cannot live in the past .

I write beautiful poetry .

She loved him until the end.

And, all my friends down the years ,where users.

I couldn’t, believe it.

Its a big thing in the States for the last 25 years.

I do have abandomment issues but they come from being left alone ,without my mum, or any of my family in a incubator for 4 months.

I don,t even have a pension.

When he wanted one of his lessons to be taught!

But im an empath, and i help lots of people.

One was a lump hammer, another was a iron chisel.

My dad was a alcholic psychopath, and violent in the extreme.

I was the most vunerable of my siblings. I was born small ,and was sickly ,and of course none of us could ever thrive!

I got to know the terrible awful childhood, he had himself. And his Jolly Pub Persona.

I of course replied” arh beautiful!

Then later on when my husband had gone to the bar..she started telling me, that they where having a affair, and that he loved her much more then me ,and other loads of visious lies.

She wouldn,t have been !

Where the ultimate outsiders.

We could never speak unless he spoke to us!

On the 31st of Jan this month .

Would this be the day?

But i went to school ,and was locked up evey evening , until he was off out on a bender..then mum would set us free, and we,d be bouncing off the walls,

It comes from Big T Trauma and is no fault of anyone who has it.

But it has taught me many things other people will , never know!

He said i’d end up like her, and he laughed his big rolicking bear of a laugh!

Comes on , in middle age.

And don,t forget my 4 months alone, in the incubator. Knowing my brother in the womb and my mother voice .The baby knows she’s alone!

She died at 55 of colon cancer.

We born here on earth , for the soul to learn , the contrast, of heaven.

Put me off passion for life!!

I waited trembling.

Took her away on holiday ,with us, my 2 pugs her dog, a Jack Russell.

You’d think that being brought up for so long, in those terrible circumsatances ,i would know the ways of people ,and the world, but i wasn,t in , nor of the world .

That life, was meant to be , as the world teaches us great lessons, and leaves us many gifts.

She said her life with him ,was love, and spoke to me of all the passion, it had brought her.

She married twice! .

He had many friends, who didn,t know the home devil he was, for his sake ,i never enlighted them either.

His abuse (his own) began at 2 years of age. His mothers friend, sexually abused him, from the age of 2.